Have you thought how it would feel if you were in a sinking ship? Helpless you just look around, and there is nothing more to do other than fight with your might until you lose your strength and give up. It is the same when you lose someone close to you all of a sudden. My dad... He left me all of a sudden, never expected that I would lose him so soon. Oct 15 2010 is going to be engraved in my heart. When he was around he was a part of my busy life just keeping up with how he is doing. You only realize certain things when the person leaves you . There are many stages of grievance one goes through. Shock, Anger, helplessness and then accepting the fact and moving on. Losing a parent or spouse is a great loss. Whatever the loss is, you have to tread through the pain feel it, understand it for the pain to wear off..
